Question: When someone says hurtful things to you?

How do you respond to hurtful words?

You may say any of the following things, or similar, depending on the situation:

1. I understand where you are coming from.
2. I understand you are upset.
3. I understand you are in pain.
4. I understand you are frustrated.
5. Is there anything I can do to help you?
6. I love you.
7. I hear you.
8. I appreciate how you are feeling.

What do you call someone who says hurtful things?

tactless (adj.): someone who is tactless says or does things that offend other people or hurt their feelings, without intending to and without realizing that they have done it: He made all sorts of tactless remarks about her appearance.

What are hurtful things to say?

60 People Share The Most Soul-Crushingly Cruel Thing Anyone Ever Said To Them

1. “You will end up alone.”
2. “I wish you hadn’t failed.”
3. “If I was your best friend I would have killed myself, too.”
4. “I hope they never find your dad and I hope he’s dead.”
5. “My life would be so much better if you were never born.”

Why does my boyfriend say hurtful things?

Why does my boyfriend say hurtful things? He says hurtful things because he feels a sense of power when you get upset. Your boyfriend says hurtful things when angry because he is unable to control his anger or his words.

How do you become strong when someone hurts you emotionally?

A 4-Step Process for Overcoming Hurt

1. Step 1: Settle Down Your Emotions.
2. Step 2: Get Very Clear About What Exactly Happened.
3. Step 3: Resolve Your Feelings of Hurt.
4. Step 4: Time to Make a Decision.
5. Focus on Your Blessings.
6. Focus on Your Strengths.
7. Let Go of Past Hurts.
8. Make an Effort to Smile More Often.

What do you say to a rude person?

Here are some ways to do exactly that:

1. That is really rude and there’s no need for that.
2. You are being inconsiderate and I need you to stop.
3. This has gone far enough, this needs to stop.
4. I will not tolerate rudeness, I am ending this conversation.
5. We can continue when you are ready to speak respectfully.

Why do I say hurtful things when I’m angry?

It’s ok to be angry it’s a normal human emotion but we can hurt others by projecting our anger onto them and hurting them in many ways including saying hurtful things. Often this is because we have been suppressing our anger towards someone without letting it out in a healthy way.

How do you deal with hurtful people?

The following are three tips for dealing with bullies and hurtful people.

1. Recognize that their words are a reflection of who they are, rather then who you are.
2. Don’t respond with cruelty or hate.
3. Practice Self-Compassion.
4. You Are Not For Everyone.

What causes a person to be rude?

Being unkind, more often than not, is a reaction to anger with ourselves or our perceived inadequacy. When I was rude to other people, it was because I was afraid they wouldn’t like the nice me. When you find that people are being rude to you in your everyday life, they are really being mean to themselves.

Whats the worst thing you can say to a man?

Six awful things you can say to a guy

• ‘Look how smart my brother is, you can never be like him‘ Comparisons drive men away!
• ‘I just know you can‘t get over her’
• ‘God, how much money do you blow on your friends!
• ‘What’s with your mom, does she always have a poker face’
• ‘Not today please, I am too sleepy’
• Using the ‘F’ word.

What’s the nicest thing you can say to someone?

What to Say to Someone

• You are more fun than anyone or anything I know, including bubble wrap.
• You are the most perfect you there is.
• You are enough.
• You are one of the strongest people I know.
• You look great today.
• You have the best smile.
• Your outlook on life is amazing.
• You just light up the room.

What should you never say to a guy?

10 Things You Should Never Say to a Guy over Text

• “We need to talk.” If you send these words to a man, then you might as well have sent him a text saying “It’s over”, because that’s what he is most likely to be thinking.
• “My period is late.”
• “Do you really love me?”
• “It’s over.”
• “What have you been up to?”
• “I see you.”
• “Are you ignoring me?”
• “

Why do guys hurt the girl they love the most?

Men often hurt the women who love them the most because they know that these women will put up with it. Men often hurt the women who love them the most because they know that these women will put up with it. Especially if it is a woman’s first love, she will do anything to make the relationship work.

Do guys ignore you when they are hurt?

Ignoring you is a very likely response from a guy who is feeling hurt. Compared to women, men are not raised to be very emotional. As young boys, many guys may even be made fun of when they show pain. So, if a guy ignores you when he’s hurt, it’s likely because he doesn’t want to acknowledge his pain.

What you should never say to your partner?

Here are 10 things to be careful to never say to your spouse:

• “You‘re crazy.”
• Nothing.
• “It’s your fault.”
• “You always….” or “You never…”
• “Just be nicer/better,” or any other vague request.
• “The word “divorce” said in anger/during a fight.